MESSAGE #1560 THE WINNINGEST COACH IN COLLEGE SPORTS HISTORY

The Trinity College Mens Squash team has won 244 consecutive matches, the most in college sports history. They have won 13 straight national championships. Their coach is Paul Assaiante, author of “Run to the Roar.”

I spoke to Coach Assaiante this morning and he shared with me his favorite story of an athlete overcoming adversity, which is also in his book.

When I was coaching squash and tennis at West Point, I had a kid named George Geczy. An army brat, the son of a high-ranking officer, he was a special kid, with a concentrated stare and an acetylene voice. He was not a great tennis player; when God was handing out tennis skills, George was in the men’s room. In the winter of freshman year, he got knocked out during a boxing class, and X-rays revealed a brain tumor. It was lucky that he had gotten knocked out; otherwise they would have never discovered the tumor. Doctors operated on him that night. He recovered enough to travel to Germany, where his father was stationed. Because of residual damage from the tumor, the doctors said, he would have trouble walking for the rest of his life.

The following September, George came back to West Point. He walked with a cane. He forgot names. He did pushups agonizingly slow. For a second time, he went through all the plebe-year hazing. In the spring he came out for the tennis team. He couldn’t run, he couldn’t walk. There was no way he could hit a tennis ball. But George was driven. I couldn’t say no and kick him off the team. I remembered how, in my freshman year of college, I had appeared at Springfield College after a couple of years of gymnastics training as a schoolboy on the weekends. Springfield had a rich tradition in gymnastics. Frank Wolcott had run Springfield’s program since 1955, and by the time I arrived on campus in the fall of 1970, he was firmly entrenched as one of the nation’s great gymnastic coaches—so great that he rightly judged my abilities and cut me after I tried out as a walk-on. He kindly said I could try out the next year. I refused to listen. “You’ll have to call security every day, because I intend to keep coming,” I told him. “I’m going to make the team.” Wolcott agreed to name me the “manager” of the team and let me attend practice. By the end of the season, I had made varsity.

In the same vein, I named George manager and assistant coach, assigning jobs like collecting towels and carrying the ball hoppers. In his sophomore year, he threw away the cane and was able to get on the court, so I asked him to feed balls to players. Then he became a hitting partner for the junior-varsity guys, and then a doubles partner when someone was late. George came to every practice. He lifted weights. He hit hundreds of balls. He worked relentlessly. In his junior year, he played doubles in a couple of junior-varsity matches at the beginning of the season, and by the end of it, he was at the top of the JV. The team elected him captain for his senior year, and he played on the varsity.

So if George can do all that, imagine what YOU can do?

Thanks for reading, and thank you, Coach Assaiante.

Ed Tseng
Director of Mental Conditioning
Monroe Sports Center
609.558.1077

MESSAGE #1559 THE SCARIEST STORY!

Happy Halloween. Today, children and adults all over the country are celebrating All Hallow’s Eve. Many dress up as devils, ghosts and goblins, to honor the dead. Some people go to haunted houses, haunted hayrides, watch horror movies, and tell ghost stories by bonfires. That’s part of the fun of Halloween. There’s even a haunted prison near where I live. Scary stuff.

Want to know something else that’s scary?

When we do things that we know will hurt our performance, like not practicing, not eating healthy, not doing homework, or not making sales calls. It’s scary because we know what we need to do, but we don’t DO what we know.

Einstein said insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

The scariest story I know is the one we keep telling ourselves…

“I can’t do it.”

“I’m not good enough.”

“I’m not smart enough.”

It’s fun to scare and be scared on Halloween, but when you wake up tomorrow morning, stop doing scary things that will hurt your performance and start taking positive action. That would be the greatest trick of all.

Happy Halloween.

MESSAGE #1558 DON’T QUIT

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high;
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are;
It may be near when it seems afar.
So, stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit
It’s when things go wrong that you mustn’t quit.

MESSAGE #1557 ATTENTION COACHES

Make sure that team members know they are working with you, not for you.
-John Wooden

MESSAGE #1556 HURT IS GOOD

Things that hurt, instruct.
-Benjamin Franklin

MESSAGE #1555 ACRONYMS

I love acronyms. Here are some of my favorites…

HOPE–Hold On Possibilities Exist

FOCUS–Follow One Course Until Success

ACE–Action Changes Everything

ABC–Always Behave Confidently.

ACT–Action Conquers Terror

MESSAGE #1554 NO EXCEPTIONS

Well, today is my birthday.

I could have taken the day off from blogging…but I can’t. I love it. I enjoy helping others.

But the real reason why I can’t is because it is difficult. Let me explain.

I’ve been blogging for 1,554 messages and now it is more difficult NOT to blog than it is TO blog. People ask me all the time how I am able to blog every day. It’s easy. It’s a habit.

It’s better to do a little a lot than it is to do a lot a little.

It’s better to study a little every day than it is to cram the night before an exam.

It’s better to practice a little every day than it is to practice ten hours in one day.

Most things are not difficult, most things are time consuming. Put in the time and you will get results.

No exceptions.

Thank you to my friends and family for all the texts, tweets, voicemails, gifts, cake and messages on Facebook. It’s been a great year and I look forward to another one. Talk to you tomorrow.

MESSAGE #1553 WANNA BE IN THE HALL OF FAME?

I recently attended the USTA Middle States Hall of Fame Induction Dinner and Auction at the Seaview Hotel and Resort. The inductees were: Louise Gengler Thomas, William Stoner, Jeff Holman, and Dave Haggerty. It was a great event and I enjoyed seeing so many wonderful people in the industry, including my fellow USTA NJ board members.

As I sat during the induction ceremony I couldn’t help but think about all the great things Louise, Bill, Jeff and Dave have done for the game of tennis. But if you asked them if they were TRYING to get into the USTA Hall of Fame, they would say no. They made a difference in the industry because they WANTED TO. They wanted to add value and focused on the process instead of the results.

Another way to say it is, if you want to get in the Hall of Fame in tennis, or life, the best way is to stop trying to get into the Hall of Fame. Strive for excellence every day and as a by-product, you just might like where you end up.

Ed Tseng
Director of Mental Conditioning
Monroe Sports Center
609.558.1077

MESSAGE #1552 CONTROL YOUR DESTINY

E + R = O

EVENT PLUS REACTION EQUALS OUTCOME.

Any questions?

MESSAGE #1551 A MESSAGE FROM MARGARET THATCHER

Look at a day when you were supremely satisfied at its end. It’s not a day when you lounge around doing nothing. It’s when you’ve had everything to do and you’ve done it.
-Margaret Thatcher, former Prime Minister of England