Most successful people are not especially talented, educated, charming or good-looking.
They become successful because they WANT to be successful.
How badly do you want to be a great athlete, musician, student, parent or artist?
Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is more important than the outcome.
-ARTHUR ASHE
1. Focus on things you can control (your effort, attitude, strategy)
2. Stay in the present moment.
3. Act as if it were impossible to fail.
Will beats skill any day.
Diligence beats intelligence any day.
Desire wins.
How bad do you want it?
Keep doing things that put you out of your comfort zone, until you feel comfortable.
Then find some new things to do that make you uncomfortable.
This is mental cross-training at its best.
Do you want to be comfortable, or do you want to be great?
Keep pushing yourself and you will find yourself in a whole new world.
Whatever is real, your mind accepts as fact.
Whatever is imagined, your mind accepts as fact.
What does this mean?
1. Practice visualizing your perfect stroke, it’s almost as good as physically doing it.
2. Focus on things that you want to happen, not things you don’t want to happen.
3. Imagine different scenarios that may occur and think about how you will react when those situations arise–then you will be prepared.
“Set your goals high and don’t stop until you get there.”
-BO JACKSON
I saw a sign today that read…
“First we will be the best, then we will be first.”
This is a great quote, but unfortunately most people have it backwards.
Most people think that they need to be first to be the best.
That’s the wrong focus.
When you focus on being first, you probably won’t become first.
But when you focus on being the best by giving the best effort/service/attitude, you will be first at whatever you do. And don’t worry if you don’t become first right away, stick with it because I’d like to see who’s going to beat you in the long-run. I guarantee there won’t be many still around.
Today’s message is especially dedicated to the great Justin Shackil.
I thought of this blog entry while I was out running this morning. My ideal start to the day is a visualization/gratitude/meditation run, then some weights and ending with yoga.
As I was doing my interval running (walk/jog/sprint), I found myself wanting to stop when I couldn’t go any further. And in the first round, I did stop. But then I thought, I am going to just go a little longer next time. I did. It wasn’t so bad. Then I did it again. I pushed myself.
The problem with stopping when you “feel like” stopping is that you are training yourself to ease up.
The key is to do a little bit more. Whenever I’m training someone in the gym, I say, do as many repetitions as you can, then do two more.
When you push yourself through the initial uncomfortable state, you end up in a whole new world.
And you get whole new results.
Fight one more round. When your feet are so tired that you have to shuffle back to the center of the ring, fight one more round. When your arms are so tired that you can hardly lift your hands to come on guard, fight one more round. When your nose is bleeding and your eyes are black and you are so tired that you wish that your opponent would crack you one on the jaw and put you to sleep, fight one more round — remembering that the man who always fights one more round is never whipped.
-JAMES CORBETT, heavyweight boxing champion
Supposedly, Babe Ruth was once asked, “What do you think about after you strike out?”
His reply was, “I think about hitting home runs.”
What do you think about when you don’t get the results you want?
What you focus on, you get.